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My Problem with Coping is My Blaming & Damning!
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"He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us His holy Spirit."--I Thessalonians 4:8
"We can actually put the essence of neurosis in a single word: blaming--or damning."--Albert Ellis & Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127. Order A Guide to Rational Living
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My coping problems are a result of-- my blaming & damning my self, others, life, and-or God. |
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Therefore when I blame and damn my self, others, life, and-or God for causing my problems-- I only increase my problems. |
QUOTATIONS VARIOUS SOURCES
"When you point a finger at another, you are also pointing three fingers at yourself."--Anonymous (often quoted in AA in various forms)
"He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us His holy Spirit."--I Thessalonians 4:8
"I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him."--Booker Taliaferro Washington, 1856-1915
"You are what you hate not what you ate."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"To condemn is stupid and easy, but to understand is arduous, requiring pliability and intelligence."--J. Krishnamurti, The Collected Works of J. Krishnamurti, Volume IV, page 143
"One does not hate so long as one continues to rate low, but only when one has come to rate equal or higher."--Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil
"We can actually put the essence of neurosis in a single word: blaming--or damning."--Albert Ellis & Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127. Order A Guide to Rational Living.
"Let us not burden our remembrances with a heaviness that is gone."--William Shakespeare
"If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally--about anything. Yes, anything."--Albert Ellis & Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 127
'Damning is the worst form of demanding."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"The moment you blame anyone for anything, your relationship and your personal power deteriorate."--Brian Koslow
"And just as two wrongs don't make a right, rage against offenders is probably the worst way to try to correct them."--Albert Ellis & Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 130
"To call others judgmental is judgmental."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"You can overcome anything if you don't bellyache."--Bernard Baruch
"Give not over thy mind to heaviness, and afflict not thyself in thine own counsel."--Ecclesiasticus 30:21
"Do not weep; do not wax indignant. Understand."--Baruch Spinoza
"Being right does not give you the right to damn."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"Even when people act nastily to you, don't condemn them or retaliate."--Albert Ellis & Robert A. Harper, A Guide to Rational Living, Third Edition, p. 205
"Only God can damn without serving Satan."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace."--Proverbs 11:12
"Damning is when the medicine is worse than the poison."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"Damning is when the cure is worse than the illness."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"Feeling stupid won't make you smart."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"The whiner equates pain with power."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"Feeling bad won't make you good."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"Damning is turning the living into things, into the dead."--Kevin Everett FitzMaurice
"You can overcome anything if you don't bellyache."--Bernard M. Baruch
"When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself."--Louis Nizer
"Fear less, hope more; eat less, chew more; whine less, breathe more; talk less, say more; hate less, love more; and all good things are yours."--Swedish proverb
"You cannot solve a problem by condemning it."--Wayne Dwyer
"Condemn the sin not the sinner."--Christian saying
"Despise the crime not the criminal."--Japanese saying
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