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1) Face Negative

2) Choose Positive

3) Detach from Both


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1) Face Negative: watch, listen, observe, witness, record, aware, bring to light, conscious, stand, do not resist, do not argue, do not try to control, do not try to change.

2) Choose Positive: follow, surrender, host, align, wait, choose, serve, magnify, worship.

3) Detach from Both: be the vessel, just be your self, be the container not the contents, do not identify self as either.


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Recognize: become aware of the negative and positive by their fruits, for example, the negative has the fruit of disintegration and the positive has the fruit of peace.

Remove: detach identity from both the positive and the negative.

Replace: switch the contents from the negative to the positive and shift identity from the contents back to the container.

 



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